The Day I Learned How Transformers Truly “Pay Attention”

4 min readNov 27, 2024

It started with a simple question: How do transformers understand relationships between words in a sentence?

I had been diving deep into artificial intelligence for months, fascinated by how models like GPT and BERT could write essays, summarize documents, and even translate languages. Yet, one thing puzzled me — how could a model like this understand the meaning of a word like “it” in the sentence:

“The dog chased the ball because it was fast.”

Was “it” referring to the dog or the ball? Humans can make this connection naturally, but how do machines do it? That’s when I stumbled upon self-attention, the secret sauce behind transformers.

The Lightbulb Moment

Imagine you’re reading a book. Every word builds on the one before it, creating meaning. If you’re a traditional AI model like a Recurrent Neural Network (RNN), you read each word sequentially — one by one — remembering what came before. Sounds logical, right?

But here’s the problem: What if you need to recall something from way back in the sentence? Or worse, what if the sentence is really long? Suddenly, that memory starts to fade, and the context gets lost.

That’s where self-attention comes in. It doesn’t read a sentence one word at a time. Instead, it treats every word as equally important. It reads them all at once, figuring out how each word relates to every other word.

It’s like having a room full of people talking all at once. Instead of tuning into just one conversation, self-attention listens to every word simultaneously — and understands which ones matter most.

Unpacking the Magic

Here’s how it works. Every word in a sentence gets turned into three things:

A Query: Think of this as a question.
A Key: This represents how important that word might be to answer the question.
A Value: This is the actual meaning of the word.

When the word “it” asks, Who am I referring to? the Query for “it” matches against the Keys of every other word in the sentence. If the Key for “dog” is a strong match, the model knows “it” likely refers to the dog.

But here’s the twist: This isn’t done once. It’s done for every word in the sentence.

Each word “pays attention” to every other word, scoring how important each one is, creating a rich map of relationships.

The Dog and the Ball

I tried to visualize it:

The word “dog” is matched with “chased,” “ball,” and “it.”
“Ball” connects back to “dog” and “it.”

Suddenly, it clicked. The sentence wasn’t being processed as a sequence; it was being processed as a web of connections. The model was building a network of meaning where words reinforced each other.

When I looked deeper into this, I learned about multi-head attention, where the model can focus on different parts of the sentence simultaneously. One head might focus on “dog,” while another focuses on “ball.” Together, they give the full picture.

Transformers: The New AI Superheroes

As I dug deeper, I realized that this concept wasn’t just for sentences. Transformers are so powerful because self-attention works with anything that has structure:

In language, it understands context.
In images, it looks at patches of pixels to figure out the bigger picture.
In music, it finds patterns across notes and beats.

Self-attention made transformers flexible, allowing them to outperform older models like RNNs and even Convolutional Neural Networks (CNNs) in tasks like image recognition.

The Trade-Off

Of course, nothing comes without a cost. Self-attention is computationally heavy. For every word, it has to compute how much it should “pay attention” to every other word. This means it grows slower as sentences get longer.

But researchers are clever. They’ve introduced optimizations like sparse attention, which reduces the number of comparisons, making transformers faster and more efficient.

The Big Picture

By the time I finished my research, I felt like I had unlocked a mystery. Self-attention wasn’t just a tool — it was a way of thinking. Instead of focusing on one thing at a time, it taught me to look at everything at once, to see connections I’d missed before.

Transformers, with their self-attention superpower, have changed the game. They’re not just writing essays or translating languages; they’re redefining how we teach machines to understand the world.

And every time I see them in action — whether it’s generating a paragraph like this one or identifying objects in an image — I remember the dog and the ball.

Because, like self-attention, sometimes the magic lies in seeing the bigger picture.

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